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I have never been a follower of fashion. Not that I haven't tried. When I was younger I did endeavour to buy clothes that reflected the era, that I thought were stylish and which I hoped made me look like I gave a damn.

Before I had the luxury of working from home, I also had a work wardrobe of appropriate skirts, shirts and pants with footwear that may have been considered "comfortable" by more clothes conscious colleagues.

Now most of those outfits have been relegated to the back of the closet, along with the few "going out" pieces that are worn even more infrequently.

As fortunate as I am to be able to work from home, there has been one major downside to my work-life balance - and that's my now very limited collection of wearables.

I seem to have reverted back to the days of student poverty, when a favourite item of clothing was worn until it literally fell off.

My mother still reminds me, 20 years later, how much she hated one treasured jumper that I wore continually.

It may have been shapeless, ugly and past its use-by date, but to me it was as valuable as any Gucci gown or pair of Jimmy Choos.

My lack of fashion inspiration has often been a source of embarrassment for my husband, even before kids came along.

Questions about my ability to mix and match were raised frequently in the morning rush hour.

Those dilemmas don't crop up as much these days because I find myself wearing a limited selection of outfits.

Some in the family like my consistency. PlayStation recently had to write a little exposition on the things that made him upset or afraid.

At the top of his list was "I get afraid when my mum wears different clothes".

At first I thought he might have seen a dramatic change in couture as a sign that things on the home front may have shifted, but when I asked him about his concerns he told me that if I changed my look he was a little anxious that he would not recognise me when I came to pick him up from school.

Now I have a teenage fashionista in the house, my disregard of all things designer is becoming more of an issue. Although she pretends that my outdated shorts don't send shivers down her spine, or that my quirky message T-shirts don't make her cringe, I can tell from the disapproving looks from behind her recently purchased vintage Ray-Bans that my attitude to attire is a source of irritation.

Last week I decided to try to remedy the situation and dragged myself to the shops.

And it was then I realised that three years out in the shopping wilderness has left me even more cynical and wary of full-length mirrors and harsh lighting.

Under the glare of the fluorescent tubes and nowhere to turn without a mirror mocking you in your nanna knickers and worn-out bra, retail therapy is more like retail torture for those of us who would rather live in ignorant bliss than admit our bodies are not what they used to be.

Although new is nice there's nothing like pulling on your favourite pair of faded shorts or over-washed T-shirt.

And if I wait long enough my outdated wardrobe will soon come back into vogue and Cybergirl will be raiding my closet instead of hanging her head in shame.

Keeli Cambourne is a South Coast journalist trying to find the perfect life/work balance.

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