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Rhonda, the 59-year-old who wants to be adopted

12 Nov, 2008 11:13 AM
Most people adopt children, cats or even dogs, but Wollongong retiree Rhonda Bowen is seeking an elderly couple to adopt her.

Ms Bowen, 59, said the idea of making herself available for "adoption" had been brewing for a long time. She has plenty of love and time to share, but no-one to share it with.

"Since my mother died five years ago, I feel sort of lost and lonely," Ms Bowen said.

"I go to church down at the mall and I have great friends there, but there must be old people who want someone to come and have a yak, or to do their shopping, and I am sure that I am not alone.

"They might be a single oldie or couples around the Wollongong area, where I can just pop in with a cake and have a cuppa."

Ms Bowen does not have internet access, so she can't join online site, Adopt-A-Pensioner. She doesn't have a car either, so that rules out Meals on Wheels. She already volunteers through her church to visit elderly people in nursing homes, but it seems that's not enough.

"It's more what I want to give to people, I don't want anything back, I would just like to be able to help," Ms Bowen said.

"I was brought up to really care about people, but many people don't think about anyone else, and I would just love to be out there cheering up people.

"It also makes you feel good in the heart that you have helped a bit."

Reverend Gordon Bradbery, who has known Ms Bowen for five years, said she was a genuine, good person, with a big heart.

"There are lots of people who volunteer and they do it in all sorts of ways," Rev Bradbery said.

"I think there are people who are just looking for opportunities to mix with others as well.

"Unless you have got a lot of money, you can't afford to go to too many places these days and a lot of places are geared to younger people, so for seniors there is a bit of a gap there, I think."

If you are interested in "adopting" Ms Bowen, call the Mercury on 4221 2206.

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Not having a computer or a car does not mean you cannot join organisations and get on a train or bus to get there.


Posted by Fergie, 12/11/2008 11:48:02 AM
My mother is 90-years-old and would love to have someone to come and chat with her.

She loves to talk about her childhood, etc. She is in the Wollongong area.

Posted by lynne, 12/11/2008 1:22:06 PM
I have often wanted to be adopted by Bill Gates.....
Posted by Adopt me Bill, 12/11/2008 5:08:52 PM
I feel there should be more people like Rhonda Bowen and the world would be a much nicer place. Des
Posted by Des , 13/11/2008 12:32:51 AM
You can have my parents if you like.... Seriously, good luck to you!

I'm sure the plan will work for all involved.

Just think what a nice Christmas you will have this year.

Posted by jenni, 13/11/2008 12:13:28 PM

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Retiree Rhonda Bowen feels she can help someone elderly who might need a friend. Picture: DAVE TEASE
Retiree Rhonda Bowen feels she can help someone elderly who might need a friend. Picture: DAVE TEASE

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