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We didn't mishear hug ban, say Figtree High students

02 Mar, 2011 03:00 AM
Students from Figtree High School have rejected suggestions they mistook a lesson on inappropriate behaviour for an announcement banning hugging.

Several parents told the Mercury this week their children had been informed by a senior teacher at a school assembly that hugging was banned and those caught in the act would be punished with detention.

However, the Education Department dismissed the claims and instead said hugging had merely been mentioned during a discussion outlining examples of inappropriate behaviour.

Students from the school yesterday responded by venting their frustration on the Mercury's website.

They rejected suggestions that students had misinterpreted the assembly presentation.

"I am a senior student at Figtree High, and what it says in the article is exactly what was said in assembly at school," one student wrote.

"Nothing that was said was misinterpreted - it was as plain as stated. I think it's ridiculous."

Another wrote: "I'm a student in Year 10 at Figtree High School and I would just like to say that during the assembly it was clearly stated and I quote 'if you touch, kiss or hug anyone, you will be sent to the deputy's office and sent home'."

A parent with two children at the school wrote that she also believed hugging had been banned.

An Education Department spokeswoman yesterday remained adamant Figtree High students were not banned from hugging.

She said the school had received no formal complaints about the matter.

The Mercury made repeated attempts to contact the high school last week and on Monday was referred to the Education Department for comment.

A Facebook page created by students entitled "im gonna hug you so tight tomorrow when i see you LOL JK i go to figtree high and it's banned" had yesterday received the "thumbs up" from 162 people.

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What on earth would students have to gain by making this up. I don't believe that students misinterpreted what was said. A sad indictment on society that hugging and showing love and compassion towards others could actually be banned. Wake up Figtree High - students stand true to your convictions, well done.
Posted by tell the truth, 2/03/2011 6:33:07 AM, on Illawarra Mercury
Why were none of the other comments mentioned in the article? The ones in support of the teachers and in support of the ban? Give the teachers their power back I say. You make a mockery of the staff and the decisions they make and then you wonder why the students have no respect for them? Irrelevant of what was said at that assembly, those teachers need the support of the community to get these kids back into line and all we seem to be doing is hindering their efforts. Teachers deserve more respect and credit for a job in which they studied and trained in order to gain for over 3 years at university. I'm sure if they did implement the ban on hugging, it would've been for a very justified reason. Have some respect for these people, they are they ones ultimately effecting your children's futures.

A teacher affects eternity, he can never tell where his influence stops. - Henry Brooks Adams.

Posted by who cares, 2/03/2011 7:01:07 AM, on Illawarra Mercury
Gee it's so fantastic to see the local youth standing up for their rights. Good on you all.
Posted by Blah, 2/03/2011 7:09:53 AM, on Illawarra Mercury
And give me nice hugging kids over violent little brats any day!
Posted by Blah, 2/03/2011 7:20:54 AM, on Illawarra Mercury
Another DET coverup
Posted by what on earth, 2/03/2011 7:28:06 AM, on Illawarra Mercury
This is not about teacher bashing or deningrating the role of a teacher. I have no doubt that Figtree High has some very talented & committed teachers. I just can't see how banning hugging can be beneficial for anyone. Teachers should be able to lead by example and "affect eternity" without the imposition of punitive rules from those they work with.
Posted by tell the truth, 2/03/2011 7:43:06 AM, on Illawarra Mercury
Blah, give me a break. I am damned sure the groups of teen girls I see in the Wgong CDB who run like idiots to each other for a session of big meaningless hugs & then enter into a tirade about the scrubbers they are gonna bash if they came across them are all about "peace & love".
Posted by CityDweller, 2/03/2011 7:44:28 AM, on Illawarra Mercury
Your are at school to learn, not to be affecionate with one another. I applaud the management of Figtree High for taking this stance against innapropriate behaviour and putting the welfare of their students first
Posted by former student, 2/03/2011 8:18:11 AM, on Illawarra Mercury
Did any of you stop to consider that some of the 17 and 18 year old boys might be going around "hugging" some of the girls. The hugging was not a mutual hug and many of the girls felt uncomfortable with these very close hugs. Do you think the school was going to get up in the assembly and say "stop sexually harassing the girls"? It is far easier to to tell the kids to stop hugging. This is code people for "stop the inappropriate touching of others".

Its the same with bullying, we don't let the kids play fight or pretend to fight. What happens is that a teacher will approach a student and tell the student to stop hitting or kicking the other student and the response is always the same " Sir he's my friend, were just mucking around". This is how systemic bullying happens in a school.

The boys hugging the girls say the same thing " Sir we are just hugging". The girl is too frightened to say anything.

Schools are there to protect children. If children want to hug, let them hug off of the school grounds or at home.

I know I don't want 17 year old boys "hugging" my 12 year old girl at high school.

Most people would be horrified if they spoke to a counselor about this.

Posted by adam, 2/03/2011 8:44:27 AM, on Illawarra Mercury
Hey Blah, I agree with you about preferring hugging kids over violent little brats.

Unfortunately the violent little brats also enjoy a "hug" and it makes kids feel uncomfortable. What you have in some schools is a minority of "little violent hugging brats" bad mix my friend bad mix.

Posted by adam, 2/03/2011 9:06:52 AM, on Illawarra Mercury
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