The Reverend Geoffrey Flynn offers spiritual support for those affected by suicide.

As a minister in Wagga for 13 years before his appointment to the Church on the Mall, he has seen many families torn apart by suicide because of drought and depression.

He said though there were many agencies offering practical and emotional support in Wagga, Wollongong and elsewhere, religious leaders like him could offer a different kind of support.

"There's often three phases of reacting when someone takes their own life - there's the initial shock which can then lead to avoidance," Mr Flynn said.

"Then when the reality sets in, can come quite heightened emotions which can trigger a search for meaning. This can have spiritual dimensions depending on a person's background.

"When it comes to those bigger questions people have about what happens to their loved ones; whether there is life beyond the grave and so on; a religious leader can help people explore their thoughts and offer them alternate ways to respond."

Mr Flynn said people didn't have to be part of the Wesley Uniting Church congregation, or even of a certain faith, to come in for spiritual support.

He said he could provide a "listening ear" and offer ways to move forward while keeping their loved one's memory dear.

"A liturgy or ritual may help people as they move on to living with the legacy of what's happened," he said.

"It may be a public liturgy like a farewell service that will allow people to process their experience and say their goodbyes.

"Or it could be a simple ritual like lighting a candle that they do at an appropriate time - such as on anniversaries, birthdays and special events like Christmas where memories or feelings are often evoked."

Readers seeking support and information about suicide prevention can contact Lifeline on 131114 or Suicide Call Back Service 1300659467.